Do you constantly criticise yourself for mistakes or imperfections? Do you neglect your basic needs (such as rest, nutrition, and health)? Are you overly permissive with yourself, lacking healthy limits and self-discipline? Do you find it difficult to celebrate your achievements? Are you uncomfortable practising self-compassion? If so, your inner parent may benefit from attention and healing.

When we’re struggling with challenging thoughts or feelings, our natural instinct is to push away the discomfort. We want solutions that will make the pain disappear as quickly as possible. This desire is completely understandable. Yet, as a therapist, I’ve found that lasting healing rarely comes from bypassing our problems or applying quick fixes. Instead, it emerges when we create a safe space to nurture our curiosity and genuinely understand ourselves and our experiences.

Have you ever shared something deeply personal with someone you’re close with, only to receive a response that made you wonder if they were really listening? Or perhaps you’ve felt that hollow ache of disappointment when someone who claims to love you seems to misunderstand who you truly are?

Do you find yourself lying awake at night, wondering if you’ll ever feel truly comfortable in your intimate relationships? Perhaps you’re struggling with feelings of embarrassment or difficulties understanding your desires. Maybe you’re carrying the weight of past experiences that make it difficult to trust and connect with others. You’re not alone.

Do you ever catch yourself reacting to situations with the same intensity you felt as a teenager? Perhaps you shrink in important meetings, feeling that same insecurity you experienced in high school. Or maybe you still hear that critical inner voice telling you you're not good enough – the one that first emerged during those turbulent teenage years.

Do unresolved emotions or traumas from your past continue to influence your present-day reactions and choices? In the journey of self-discovery and personal growth, one important aspect to consider is the inner child—the part of ourselves that retains childhood memories, emotions, and beliefs. Our inner child influences our behaviours, relationships and emotional responses, profoundly shaping our adult lives. 

Do you struggle with self-esteem or self-worth issues that seem to stem from childhood experiences? Are you prone to intense emotional reactions or triggers that seem disproportionate to the present situation? Are you interested in developing greater self-awareness and compassion toward yourself and others? Journaling is a powerful tool for reparenting and inner child healing.

In the reparenting journey, nurturing your inner child is a powerful way to heal past wounds and provide the love and support you may not have received in your formative years. This activity will guide you in imagining your inner child and writing a compassionate letter acknowledging their feelings and needs.

In a world that often glorifies achievement and perfection, self-compassion can be challenging and elusive. Our society encourages us to be our best, strive for excellence, and constantly improve ourselves. While these aspirations are undoubtedly positive, they can also create an environment where self-compassion becomes a rare and unfamiliar practice.

At certain moments in our lives, it’s not uncommon to find ourselves caught in the labyrinth of self-discovery, grappling with the elusive question – ‘Who am I?’ The journey to truly knowing ourselves can be profound and confusing as we navigate the intricate spaces of our minds and emotions.

Have you ever felt stuck in unhealthy thought patterns or unhelpful beliefs that hold you back from living your best life? Do anxieties, fears, or past experiences continue to haunt you? You are not alone. We all carry within us wounds and struggles that shape our perception and sense of self. The good news is, lasting transformation is possible if you have the right guidance. Ericksonian hypnosis offers a path to unlock your inner wisdom and potential through its deeply respectful, story-driven approach.

Low self-esteem and low self-confidence are widespread issues that affect millions of people around the world. The impact of these issues on one’s overall well-being and quality of life cannot be underestimated. Fortunately, there are strategies and tools available to help individuals boost their self-esteem and self-confidence, and one of the most effective methods is journaling.

Intrinsic motivation is behaviour powered by what is important to you, such as your values system and what’s meaningful to you. This contrasts with extrinsic motivation, which is behaviour motivated by external rewards, such as awards, public recognition, money, social status, job promotions, social media attention, and validation by others.

The Mountain Meditation helps us access our inner strength. It reveals our ability to remain stable when faced with stressful and challenging circumstances, both internal and external.

Answers to frequent questions about hypnotherapy, including:

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