An attachment injury is a deeply distressing relational experience in which trust, emotional safety, or connection with your significant partner is suddenly broken. This can occur through betrayal, emotional abandonment, repeated unreliability, or moments when one partner feels unprotected. Attachment injuries can leave lasting emotional wounds that shape how people relate, respond to closeness, and experience safety in relationships.

Emotional distance often develops without a crisis, betrayal, or defining issue. In high-functioning couples, it can emerge gradually, through slight shifts in how partners respond to each other, how available they are emotionally, and how much vulnerability feels safe to share. Couples who experience this drifting apart frequently report that nothing is ‘wrong’ in any obvious way, yet something essential is missing.

Have you ever found yourself repeating the same patterns in relationships, even when you don’t want to? Or felt overwhelmed by emotions that seem to come from nowhere? Psychodynamic therapy offers a space to explore the deeper patterns and emotional experiences that shape how we relate to ourselves, others, and the world around us.

The first couples therapy session is a structured, 80-minute session designed to establish a shared understanding of what is happening in your relationship. It forms part of an assessment process, allowing me to understand your relational dynamics, current difficulties, and what has led you to seek therapy at this point.

Do you constantly criticise yourself for mistakes or imperfections? Do you neglect your basic needs (such as rest, nutrition, and health)? Are you overly permissive with yourself, lacking healthy limits and self-discipline? Do you find it difficult to celebrate your achievements? Are you uncomfortable practising self-compassion? If so, your inner parent may benefit from attention and healing.

When we’re struggling with challenging thoughts or feelings, our natural instinct is to push away the discomfort. We want solutions that will make the pain disappear as quickly as possible. This desire is completely understandable. Yet, as a therapist, I’ve found that lasting healing rarely comes from bypassing our problems or applying quick fixes. Instead, it emerges when we create a safe space to nurture our curiosity and genuinely understand ourselves and our experiences.

Have you ever wondered why certain patterns keep appearing in your relationships? Why trust feels so difficult, or why emotional intimacy sometimes seems impossible? The experiences we have as children, especially when they involve abuse or neglect, can leave lasting imprints on our hearts and minds.

Have you ever shared something deeply personal with someone you’re close with, only to receive a response that made you wonder if they were really listening? Or perhaps you’ve felt that hollow ache of disappointment when someone who claims to love you seems to misunderstand who you truly are?

Do you find yourself lying awake at night, wondering if you’ll ever feel truly comfortable in your intimate relationships? Perhaps you’re struggling with feelings of embarrassment or difficulties understanding your desires. Maybe you’re carrying the weight of past experiences that make it difficult to trust and connect with others. You’re not alone.

Do you ever catch yourself reacting to situations with the same intensity you felt as a teenager? Perhaps you shrink in important meetings, feeling that same insecurity you experienced in high school. Or maybe you still hear that critical inner voice telling you you're not good enough – the one that first emerged during those turbulent teenage years.

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) provides an attachment-based framework for understanding and restructuring emotional responses and relational patterns.

Looking for therapy but wondering if online sessions would be a good fit for you? Deep, meaningful connections can happen just as naturally through a screen as they do in a therapy room. Online therapy offers a powerful way to work through challenges and grow while fitting seamlessly into your life.

Anxiety is a harsh reality for millions of people around the world. From excessive worrying and racing thoughts to crippling panic attacks and physical symptoms like a pounding heart and shortness of breath, anxiety can be debilitating. If you’re struggling with anxiety, you’re certainly not alone—but you also don’t have to accept it as a way of life. There is a path forward to overcome anxiety and reclaim a sense of calm and control.

Do unresolved emotions or traumas from your past continue to influence your present-day reactions and choices? In the journey of self-discovery and personal growth, one important aspect to consider is the inner child—the part of ourselves that retains childhood memories, emotions, and beliefs. Our inner child influences our behaviours, relationships and emotional responses, profoundly shaping our adult lives. 

As psychedelic-assisted therapy begins to build mainstream acceptance, carefully curated music is emerging as a therapeutic tool to help clients access deep levels of self-insight, emotional release, and healing.

Do you struggle with self-esteem or self-worth issues that seem to stem from childhood experiences? Are you prone to intense emotional reactions or triggers that seem disproportionate to the present situation? Are you interested in developing greater self-awareness and compassion toward yourself and others? Journaling is a powerful tool for reparenting and inner child healing.

Somatic therapy is a holistic approach that recognises the interplay between the mind and body in the experience and resolution of emotional and psychological issues. It supports increased awareness of bodily sensations while exploring thoughts, feelings, and memories to support recovery and change.

In the reparenting journey, nurturing your inner child is a powerful way to heal past wounds and provide the love and support you may not have received in your formative years. This activity will guide you in imagining your inner child and writing a compassionate letter acknowledging their feelings and needs.

What if you could easily tap into your unconscious mind to facilitate positive change? How might it empower you to overcome obstacles, alleviate stress, or achieve your goals with renewed energy? Let’s explore the transformative power of self-hypnosis.

In the whirlwind of our daily lives, we often overlook the complex network of internal senses within us — the symphony of interoception. This collection of senses connects us to our internal world, where the rhythmic beats of our heartbeat, the gentle flow of our breath, and the subtle whispers of hunger harmonise to create a profound symphony of self-awareness.